I've worked in psych for about 6 years now, fairly new as a nurse. I'm finding that many people are drawn to this profession for a variety of reasons, but moreso that there are some real weirdos in the psych field. I was going to ask for some input about a certain situation:
The co-worker is asian and doesn't speak English well... This isn't a problem per se, but i'm thinking there are things that get lost in translation.
There are two units here detox and MH and if I'm working detox that night, I like to take my nurse to nurse calls. That is, I like to talk to the referring nurse as i'll be resuming care for that client when they arrive at detox... make sense ?
instead this other nurse will take report if i'm occupied and won't ask enough questions, and there will be holes of information for me surrounding the incoming client.
I explained to this co-worker of mine, " oh yeah, when the hospital calls with a nurse to nurse for detox, can you please let me take the call, as i like to get the first hand scoop on what the deal is with the incoming client...? "
She became angry and defensive and started talking about things that really didn't follow, and now pretty much all communication has broken down.
This person makes no eye contact and looks just plain angry and basically ignores me while i'm in the same area she's in... i've tried to explain x 2 that this wasn't a personal attack and apparently i still remain on her sh*t list.... all i'm seeing is this grudge holding type behavior...
next step is to take it to the boss, but since i am accustomed to settling such issues like adults it feels ridiculous and working with her is plain weird now. I feel like i'm dealing with a client or something.
do you think this is cultural or something else?
suggestions ?