Let me start by saying I know there are a myriad of opinions on a man working in ob. I am one who does. My issue was 2 days ago, I went in to help with an induction admission. The husband requested no "guys" when his wife is exposed, so I proceded to put her IV in and left the room. I am still new to this, so I go out of my way to respect this request, and did not intent on helping with that pt. Fast forward to today when the pediatrician made rounds. No female nurses around to make rounds with him, so I help out. We go into this patients room and the husband says, "What don't you understand, sir? We don't want you in here." The ped asked what he missed, and the dad says that hey had problems with me the day of the admission. (the one where all i did was an IV start) Never did he object to the ped on rounds, just me. (he is a guy) The point to this thread? Does it sound like I did anything wrong? I was mad and needed to vent. BTW, the pediatrician came with me to my boss and helped defend me ahead of time in case I get negetive comments from the husband. We found out he was verbally abusive of his wife and ? physical abuse. At least I don't treat my wife that way!
ps - I love this fieldof nursing and have had all positive experiencesuntil now. I know these things will happen. sorry so long in words!