Hello Everyone,
I hope you don't mind me popping in here. I'm a nurse but do Med/Surg Onc, so haven't been here before. I also participate in a debate board on another website for Breastfeeding vs. Formula feeding. It's a fun diversion.
I frequently see statements on that board that breastfeeding efforts are sabotaged by healthcare professionals. This could be anything from OB/GYN offices handing out free sample formula, to nursery nurses giving babies bottles without the parents permision, to Doctors advising new moms to switch to formula instead of getting LC's involved, to Drs unable or unwilling to diagnose nursing problems and help a mother through them. The general concensus is that most (not all) women who fail at breastfeeding could have been successful if they just had the right education and support.
So what is your experience? How supportive is your hospital/practice/environment toward breastfeeding? How much education do MB nurses get in breastfeeding issues and support? How many LCs does your hospital have and do they see everyone? If you don't work in a hospital, what are your experiences/insights? And, if you want to share, what are your own personal views towards breastfeeding vs formula and how the healthcare system supports one or the other?
When I hear people "blame" nurses (blame is probably too strong of a word) my hackles get up and I want to defend them. But I don't really know what goes on. My only experience is my own DDs births' 13 and 11 years ago. So I thought I'd ask for your thoughts and opinions.
BF vs. FF is a very personal choice and a lot of women who aren't successful at BF become very defensive and accuse the "lactivist" of being mean and judgemental of them. In reality, however, it seems that people are critical of themselves for their "failure" and tend to project those feelings onto others. Terms like LLL Nazi is thrown around in the media, when in reality, no one has ever met one. It's an unjustified image, since most people say their LLL experience is warm and accepting and positive.
Well, I think the nurse who rolls her eyes at a new mom insisting on not giving a newborn a bottle is also an unjustified image. (Think "The Office" when Pam had her baby). So tell me, am I right?
If anyone is interested in viewing that board, let me know and I'll post a link.
Thanks in advance for your insight!
Mappers