Why "male nurses" instead of "men in nursing"?

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I've been in an accelerated grad-entry program for six months and have collected about a dozen examples of subtle--the worst kind--discrimination against men in my nursing program. (Using "she" when instructors refer to a generic nurse in my courses is a pet peeve of mine. But, being left off a mailing list to form a chapter of AAMN because my gender was listed as F instead of M was embarassing.)

One question I have for the group is why we think the phrase "male nurse" is an appropriate title? I think the term "male nurse" is sexist. I'm studying to be a nurse, not a male nurse. Our language is always changing and we've eliminated some of the female employment bias by using "server" instead of "waiter or waitress", chairperson instead of "chairman or chairwoman", and mail carrier instead of "mailman or mailwoman".

What do you guys think?

I've been in an accelerated grad-entry program for six months and have collected about a dozen examples of subtle--the worst kind--discrimination against men in my nursing program. (Using "she" when instructors refer to a generic nurse in my courses is a pet peeve of mine. But, being left off a mailing list to form a chapter of AAMN because my gender was listed as F instead of M was embarassing.)

One question I have for the group is why we think the phrase "male nurse" is an appropriate title? I think the term "male nurse" is sexist. I'm studying to be a nurse, not a male nurse. Our language is always changing and we've eliminated some of the female employment bias by using "server" instead of "waiter or waitress", chairperson instead of "chairman or chairwoman", and mail carrier instead of "mailman or mailwoman".

What do you guys think?

What I hear from the patients is," Are you the doctor?", and even when you correct a person who is alert and oriented times three, they still think you're the doctor. I hear alot, "Oh, you're a male nurse." This demasculates men in nursing. I love my profession, but I think it's gonna take time to change perseptions regarding our gender in nursing. If I could find a scrub store that had DESCENT men's clothes, I would be on cloud nine.

Specializes in Rodeo Nursing (Neuro).
What I hear from the patients is," Are you the doctor?", and even when you correct a person who is alert and oriented times three, they still think you're the doctor. I hear alot, "Oh, you're a male nurse." This demasculates men in nursing. I love my profession, but I think it's gonna take time to change perseptions regarding our gender in nursing. If I could find a scrub store that had DESCENT men's clothes, I would be on cloud nine.

My present job entails transport, some housekeeping, and some assisting with patient care. A few years ago, a friend of mine was in a patient's room, attending to his duties, when he overheard a patient's relative saying on the phone, "Oh, I don't know, but the doctor just came in. I'll ask him as soon as he finishes emptying the wastebasket."

Changing public perceptions may take awhile.

Specializes in tele, stepdown/PCU, med/surg.

usually the little kids (grandkids often) call me the doctor when they refer to me to their family. It's cute.

So, maybe we could do something proactive to help change the public perception of men in nursing? I would think NPs in primary care, especially with admitting privileges, might change things somehow.

BTW, I typically use the term "physician" when I refer to MDs & DOs. From an historical perspective, academia used the term "doctor" long before these other folks did. (They stole it from the PhDs... LOL)

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