Three interviews on very different units - need advice
HI All,
I am a new nurse - graduated in April and spent my first 2 months as a nurse on a busy level III NICU. I thought that's where I'd stay until last Saturday when there were back to back traumatic deaths of 24 week sisters. I was not their nurse, but since I was on orientation they had me do all of the post mortem care one one of the sisters. I also had their last remaining sister as my patient that day and the parents were a mess and the whole thing was just heartbreaking. It broke me. It was the second baby in 2 months that I'd done post mortem care on - I came home filled with anxiety and spent the next several days doing some soul searching and I've realized that the NICU is not the place for me. I've seen adults die and that's hard, but I've dealt with that. This....was a whole other level of traumatic for me and while I am in awe and amazed at those who can work with these tiny kiddos, I don't think I'm one of them.
The NICU experience has been disappointing because objectively it was a great job.....management was great and so were coworkers. I was lucky, or at least others would tell me I was. But I was a nervous wreck at all times and I'm still seeing that sweet baby girl's face that I dressed in a pink polka dot onsie for her last picture with dad. UGH....See, I can't. My hospital system is being AMAZING about it and has offered to transfer me to one of the following units. The good news is I love being a nurse. I just have to find my right fit. I have interviews and shadowing tomorrow and Monday. I need some advice from those who've worked these types of units as to the types of questions I should ask or issues to be on the lookout for:
Ortho/Trauma/Stroke unit - I am an older new nurse (47) and I've read that Ortho/trauma is the hardest on your body. Can anyone confirm that? What would be a normal nurse/pt ratio be? This unit probably appeals to me the most only because of the varying degrees and types of injuries, but I also have to be realistic about my age.
In Patient Rehab - I know nothing about this unit. I'm worried it might be boring, but that's based on nothing. I have no idea what inpatient rehab nurses do.
Behavioral Health - This is the unit they WANT me on because I have extensive background with mental health education and suicide prevention advocacy and education. I have no idea what psych nurses do....is it 'nurse' stuff, or more therapy and group work? The unit is 37 beds with 6 medical beds.
Any advice would be helpful. The next position I accept I'm staying at for a year or more (come hell or high water!) so I want to make the best informed decision as possible.
HI All,
I am a new nurse - graduated in April and spent my first 2 months as a nurse on a busy level III NICU. I thought that's where I'd stay until last Saturday when there were back to back traumatic deaths of 24 week sisters. I was not their nurse, but since I was on orientation they had me do all of the post mortem care one one of the sisters. I also had their last remaining sister as my patient that day and the parents were a mess and the whole thing was just heartbreaking. It broke me. It was the second baby in 2 months that I'd done post mortem care on - I came home filled with anxiety and spent the next several days doing some soul searching and I've realized that the NICU is not the place for me. I've seen adults die and that's hard, but I've dealt with that. This....was a whole other level of traumatic for me and while I am in awe and amazed at those who can work with these tiny kiddos, I don't think I'm one of them.
The NICU experience has been disappointing because objectively it was a great job.....management was great and so were coworkers. I was lucky, or at least others would tell me I was. But I was a nervous wreck at all times and I'm still seeing that sweet baby girl's face that I dressed in a pink polka dot onsie for her last picture with dad. UGH....See, I can't.
My hospital system is being AMAZING about it and has offered to transfer me to one of the following units. The good news is I love being a nurse. I just have to find my right fit. I have interviews and shadowing tomorrow and Monday. I need some advice from those who've worked these types of units as to the types of questions I should ask or issues to be on the lookout for:
Ortho/Trauma/Stroke unit - I am an older new nurse (47) and I've read that Ortho/trauma is the hardest on your body. Can anyone confirm that? What would be a normal nurse/pt ratio be? This unit probably appeals to me the most only because of the varying degrees and types of injuries, but I also have to be realistic about my age.
In Patient Rehab - I know nothing about this unit. I'm worried it might be boring, but that's based on nothing. I have no idea what inpatient rehab nurses do.
Behavioral Health - This is the unit they WANT me on because I have extensive background with mental health education and suicide prevention advocacy and education. I have no idea what psych nurses do....is it 'nurse' stuff, or more therapy and group work? The unit is 37 beds with 6 medical beds.
Any advice would be helpful. The next position I accept I'm staying at for a year or more (come hell or high water!) so I want to make the best informed decision as possible.