Quit in orientation

[NewRNdreams]

hello to all... I'm a recent RN of 07-07-09

Well first off let me say this is a wonderful site and I look forward to chatting with each and everyone..

Here goes : I hate my job it is worst thing I could ever imagine. I was so in a rush to get a job when I got out of school I just grabbed it and ran, I know it is not for me. I was feeding into the nursing shortage and you'll never get a NICU/ nursery job as a new grad thing. well I was offered a position and now I'm ready to leave the job I'm orientating with. Its more than my dream job ,the times are great, the hospital is great (my first choice), the staff, and its a critical care unit which demends great skills and knowledge, I won't have to worry about getting pulled for its a specility unit, The Beneifits and Retirement is great, and I think this is what GOD meant for me to have all the time. Now I know that its not going to be perfect. But on the current job its gossip, getting canceled for work (low census), backstabbing, bad hours, etc....

The problem. I have no idea how I should go about quiting. Should I let the NM know of my recent job offer, or just simply tell her it isn't working out and I'm not a good fit. I probably would be told to leave stat since I still have about 2 weeks left in orientation so they won't waste anymore money on me. Good thing is they won't be shortstaffed for I'm not counted in the staff as of yet.

I know most are going to say I should be thankful to even have a job in this economy. But honestly I rather be without a job then go through the torture of staying there.

P.S. My nurse manager recently pulled me into her office stating that if I leave I will make them look bad.

But this is my career and if I stay I feel I would make themlook bad, because there is somewhere else I rather be.

[RNgrrl09]

Leave. You know what your heart is telling you. I would not let them know of the other offer (never burn bridges or bad mouth them), just state that it is not working out, you enjoyed the opportunity, but it is not what you want from nursing. If they were unhappy with you, they could tell you to leave with no notice. You're still in the probation period, so it will not make them look bad. I wish you the best with your new job!!! Congratulations!!!

[Chapis]

sorry, it wasn't clear to me. did you find a job in the nicu and want to quit your current job to go for the nicu opening? or whichever the case is, if you're not happy and can make it without working, quit! where are you working now(floor)?

[EymieICURN]

It sounds like you are unhappy where you are...do yourself a favor and leave that job...if you feel that way this early it will only get worse. Best of Luck! I would sit down with your NM and thank her for the opportunity but inform her that you found a job that is a much better fit to you and your future goals.

[GOMER42]

A lot of people try on jobs before they find their fit. If you're unhappy, leave. But also be aware that although the new job may appear to be your dream job, there will still be gossip, getting canceled, and other negative components.

Tell your NM the truth. Don't make excuses. You appreciate the opportunity that she gave you, but you found something that fits better.

Good luck!

[SlightlyMental_RN]

I quit my first RN job while in orientation. Even though the job drove me bonkers, I was very professional with my exit and stayed positive with my comments--best not to burn bridges and I've heard that many of the HR people are chummy with one another and like to talk. I used this site to help me craft a resignation letter:

http://www.best-job-interview.com/how-to-quit-your-job.html

Good luck!

[Reno1978, BSN, RN]

Congratulations on your new job and don't ever feel guilty about leaving to pursue your career as you see fit. Just be honest and get it over with!

[Neveranurseagain, RN]

Tell them the job turned out to be not a good fit for you and that you were offered a job in NICU where your heart really lays...you will regret not taking the dream job. In a few months, your old job will not even remeber who you are!

[lmarie1]

hi... I think you should tell them the truth as to why you want to leave. I hate gossip and backstabbing people. Yet, it is everywhere. Management certainly controls the extent of it.... Go where you can fly, excel and be happy! Keep us posted. Good luck.:redbeathe:redbeathe

[GooeyRN, ADN, BSN, CNA, LPN, RN]

Be honest with your nurse manager. Tell her something more suitable to your interests popped up. Exit nicely and thank her.

[lerabelle]

Leave NOW! Follow your heart and your dreams. I did the same thing last week. I jumped at a job because I could not find anything else and I hated it! I quit during orientation too. Trust me, you will feel better for it.

[RNperdiem, RN]

If the NICU job is the sure thing(double check) then it is time for the talk with the manager.

Leave on best terms possible.