Blessed_RN2011 replied to Ash2213's topic in Recovery
In my state, I have NEVER been tested on Christmas or any other major holiday. (Or on a weekend for that matter). Anyone I have ever talked to about it has said the same thing. I still have to call and check in, but I don't think I would ever be sele...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to moving4wrd's topic in Recovery
Just my two cents- kill her with kindness- don't suck up or grovel for her approval, but be kind to her in all situations. It's hard to be cruel to someone who is kind to you and eventually maybe she will lighten up. If no, u will feel better because...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to Junebug59's topic in Recovery
I agree with the previous posts- don't give up! Potential employers want to see and hear you have good insite to your situation. Make sure u are coming across humble, and accountable for the role you played in ur situation. Make them understand you ...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to iceangelred86's topic in Recovery
I say I was a stay at home mom- I do have a mark on my license so I also have to explain that, but on initial paperwork I list homemaker as an accounting for my time.
Blessed_RN2011 replied to skinnedknee's topic in Recovery
I faxed in a cover letter and resume- the cover letter included the status of my liscene and that I be happy to discuss more during interview. That way any potential employer knows what they are getting into before they ever call. No need to waste t...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to Twoyearnurse's topic in Recovery
Twoyear, I know just what u mean! While I was out of nursing I worked at a bank making just over minimum wage. I realized how much I identified myself as being a nurse. By not being a nurse for a year, I found myself. I am back working as a nurse no...
We are going to Disney world at the end of Dec- I have filled out the vacation portion for First Lab. My question is has anyone been tested while on vacation? I am nervous this will disrupt things for my kids if I have to find a testing facility In ...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to RNMSN51's topic in Recovery
http://alcoholrehab.com/alcohol-rehab/slip-vs-relapse/ Viva- check out this article on the difference between a slip vs relapse. An AA friend of mine posted this and unthought is was quite helpful. One day at a time!
Blessed_RN2011 replied to Junebug59's topic in Recovery
I won't lie to you- the first several months is difficult. You will experience lots of emotions-depression, anger, sadness, guilt and worry. Plus you have to learn to deal with these emotions without numbing them with drugs or alcohol. That was hard ...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to VivaLasViejas's topic in Recovery
Viva, thank you so much for sharing your story! It is a reminder for me not to become comfortable in my program and sobriety. We never have too much sobriety to be threatened by relapse. Best of luck to you! And again thank you!
Blessed_RN2011 replied to GA1234's topic in Recovery
Addiction is cunning, baffling and powerful! Umberlee has a wonderful understanding if that. It is something that will need you attention everyday of you life or it will sneak up on you! Good luck!
Blessed_RN2011 replied to RNMSN51's topic in Recovery
It depends greatly on the meeting and group of people. In my AA home group there are several cross addicted people and identify themselves as such. I had a difficult time with the "alcoholic" term too because I didn't see myself as having a problem w...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to RNMSN51's topic in Recovery
Sober, I felt the same way you do. Learning to forgive myself has been very difficult. I got very overwhelmed thinking about the future- what job, what hours, where will my career be in 5 years, 10 years, how will I make it through BON monitoring! I...
Blessed_RN2011 replied to HammeRN's topic in Recovery
Welcome Amanda! I am an addict, I have had my liscense reinstated with five years probation. I am six months in, and u can do it!!! I was blessed that I was able to find a nursing job fairly quickly. Now, I am focusing in staying sober and fulfilli...