What would you do?

I'm sorry you're experiencing this. I'm guessing your boyfriend moving to MO is not an option (is there custody issues with an ex)? Nobody can answer your question for you - you need to figure out what your priority is as far as work vs. being with your SO. Any possibility of finding work in a closer state than MO?

What would factor into the decision or advice - how old are you? How long have you and your boyfriend been together?

We have been together since 2005, I'm 32. He is moving up in his job and is not willing to relocate to MO, plus all of his family is in CA and all my family is in MO. Sigh...

I was a new grad in CA, same story graduated with honors everything, internships, etc. Nothing but rejection letters. I went out of state, doing the long distance relationship thing with my SO. It's hard, but totally worth it for me. Getting that golden year of experience- maybe you could relocate for a year? you are more likely to get a job with that year of experience. In the mean time, keep the faith! People are getting jobs, it's just very tough out there. It's a tough decision.

A friend of mine is from Sacramento as well and had to move to Louisiana for school bc of the school situation. She is going to work here in LA b/c of the job situation there. If you are up to moving, go for it. You went to nursing school to be a NURSE! Good luck!

Go. Get some experience and give yourself a leg up on the competition. It's interesting to me that you're even considering moving. That kind of says something about your relationship. 8 yrs and not married and considering moving away...hmmm. If your relationship is strong it will survive but if they help you get your BSN you are going to owe them a few years. Something to think about.

Move; never base your future on a bf, I have done this with a gf and looking back, I made a bad bad mistake.

Please, please invest in your success in your career. I agree with another poster in terms of a relationship...if it's strong enough to survive, then it will. Your job offer sounds AWESOME and will open up wonderful opportunities, and it's specialized...Go for IT!!!

If there is an opportunity grab it and run. If you take it and it doesn't work out then you can go back and say I gave it a go and it wasn't for me, nobody has lost. Will this opportunity arise again? Invest in your future because nobody else can. You aren't being selfish by leaving you are being proactive in doing what you worked so hard for. I say take the offer because you don't know what it will lead to, your gain is the bf's loss. Good luck and enjoy.

Thank you all for your responses. I have talked with SO and kids...went surprisingly well. My SO and his children were so supportive during nursing school and still so now. Thinking about not seeing them that often hurts though . Even my close friends say the same thing, "Go for it-you guys made long distance relationships look easy!" My interview is tomorrow (I guess for formalities) and I am nervous like I was for my NCLEX.