one side love problem between student nurse and doctor

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Hey I am a student nurse, I fell for a medical student over a year. I found his fb and took the first step to message him. But then one of my friend who wanted to try helping me made him angry. And I don't know what to do now? Feel free to comment and give advice .

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If you are a student nurse, you can concentrate on your nursing studies.

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I am concentrating cause of him. He is my motivation.

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What are you saying, that you got into nursing school because of this guy? This is a bad idea. Don't do anything else to pursue the relationship. And don't count on anyone else to be your "motivation." If you're not in nursing school because you want to be, it's going to end badly, one way or another. Focus on your studies.

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My nurse acquaintances who got involved with doctors ended up without a relationship and embarrassed.

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Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.

Wow. Wowwie wow wow.

How old are you? You sound like you have a lot of growing up to do. Either drop out of nursing school (if your only reason to get in it was for him) or focus on it.

If you've been in lust for a year, you can & will get over him. No guy is worth failing nursing school.

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Specializes in Emergency, Telemetry, Transplant.
I am concentrating cause of him. He is my motivation.

I'm reading between the lines, so I might be totally wrong. You met him in a non-medical situation, but now you are in nursing school to somehow connect with him? Again, I might be wrong about that, but it sounds quite weird (and borderline creepy, IMHO).

You sent him a FB message, he does not seem interested. Let it go. And make sure you truly want to be a nurse (not because of him!) before you go further in school.

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Firstly, I'm alrd in nursing school and it was during attachment I met.

Secondly, nursing attachment is so tough that when u are about to give up he happens to be the one motivating you.

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Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
I'm reading between the lines, so I might be totally wrong. You met him in a non-medical situation, but now you are in nursing school to somehow connect with him? Again, I might be wrong about that, but it sounds quite weird (and borderline creepy, IMHO).

You sent him a FB message, he does not seem interested. Let it go. And make sure you truly want to be a nurse (not because of him!) before you go further in school.

At least I'm not the only one who thinks it sounds stalker-ish.

I agree. If he didn't respond to your message & he's upset let him go. He obviously isn't interested in you. Obsessing over him only makes you seem creepy.

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Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
Firstly, I'm alrd in nursing school and it was during attachment I met.

Secondly, nursing attachment is so tough that when u are about to give up he happens to be the one motivating you.

How is he motivating you & what nursing attachment? You really just need to move on from him. He clearly isn't interested or he would've made it known.

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Specializes in Primary Care, OR.

Straight out of a movie this situation......

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Straight out of a movie this situation......

A one-half-star movie that ends badly for the delusional girl, too. I hope it doesn't involve a rabbit.

OP, when you are in your mid-twenties, perhaps sooner, you will look back on this and wonder what the hell got into you. The sooner you start to move toward that achievement, the better off you will be.

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