Apr 17, 20179 yr Hi all!I am a few months from the end of my contract... What do you have to do when finishing up?No one in my support group has finished so I'm curious what hoops you have to jump through. Just want to be ready!
Apr 18, 20179 yr Congrats on finishing up your monitoring program. I have been clean since '96 (hard to believe it's been over 20 years!). I am a believer in "meeting makers make it." I go to no less than 2 or 3 meetings a week (NA) and am involved in some form of service, always. I am a CNRN (Certified Neuroscience RN) and currently getting my PhD in Nursing with a thesis topic of the Neurobiology of addiction and it's impact on the nursing profession. I have learned a great deal about rewiring and neurogenesis/neuroplasticity with meeting attendance, step writing, prayer/meditation and so on. What I do know is...5 years is just the beginning, not the conclusion. Whether it is good news or bad news, the reality is we have brains that just don't make enough Dopamine. Using makes that worse, recovery makes that better. Good luck and big cyber hugs to you! :) Suzanne
Apr 18, 20179 yr Author Thank you for the well wishes. Congrats on your sobriety and accomplishments.
Apr 19, 20179 yr I would of been finished also IPN 6/29/17. You usually get a letter from your case manager approx 2 months before your end date to tell you are eligible for completion. They have your group letter write a letter of support and you have to write something also. I am so upset still about being told I have to sign a 6 month extension contract over an abnormal urine 1 week ago.Good luck. Call your case manager. Is this a 2 year or a 5 year contract?Gabby
Apr 19, 20179 yr What do you mean by "abnormal results." I don't know about your state, but here in Texas it's just a money skim. If I were you and know that I dint used or drink, I would challenge the 6 month. If you dont, it sold happen 2 or even 5 times. What is to make them stop?
Apr 20, 20179 yr I got a letter about 2 months before end of my contract stating the board had approved my discharge date- I tried to log in that morning for a drug screen and I got the message my user number was not recognized. Wrote an email to be sure and got confirmation I was done. No hoops, no drama- just done.As for the 12 step programs- I don't participate- I got a dog, spend time with friends, go to yoga, put myself first.
Apr 22, 20179 yr When are you due to complete? I'm due in 3 months myself. Maybe you could keep me informed on the process, is appreciate it!
Apr 22, 20179 yr I heard the send out paperwork approx 2 months before completion. Have you called your case manager?Gabby
Apr 22, 20179 yr No because I'm not due til end of July. I guess I'll maybe hear from them end of May.
Apr 23, 20179 yr Several people in my nurse support group have gotten out of their IPN contract a few months early. In fact....pretty much all of them have, now that I think about it. Even those who had relapsed early on in their contract. Anyone else notice that? And I've also heard that it's really anticlimactic. You write your personal statement and get supporting statements from your NSG facilitator, employer, therapist if you have one, and then one day you log in to check in and you just can't. That's it, you're done. Just like that. That's gotta be surreal....
Apr 26, 20179 yr Agree with heynow--it really is anticlimactic; after all the drama and worry and nitpicking, one day it's just over. No follow-up, either, which I find a little weird. They obsess over your every move for five years then drop you like a hot potato.Anyway, so happy for you!!! Congratulations! :)
Apr 28, 20179 yr This is the exact thing that worries me. I, long ago resigned myself to having to do all the back flips and dog-and-pony show **** that is involved in these programs. for the last 3 years, I've adhered to every little facet of this contract (something that involved an attorney to make them do the same) from never having missed a check-in to never having a dilute, to never even having a late/ bad report. However, in spite of all of that and zero evidence to the contrary, a single word by a so-called manager (don't get me started on that one) that the case manager contacted....I was on the hook for another complete evaluation...$1000....for which the result was absolutely nothing, no changes, why was i even there. All of that being said, i am getting close to the "transitional monitoring" whatever the heck that might mean. Supposedly they lift some of the stipulations, (like hopefully the useless 12 step meeting attendance) Am i going to get dinged with some nebulous "abnormal" or some other crap that will give them an excuse to suck more money out of me and keep me on the roller coaster through Hades that this is?Sounds paranoid, i know but I don't trust these idjits any further than I can throw them. they've played fast and loose with my mental health and my career, causing more damage than I ever could have on my own.I've had to have a lawyer warn them against weird, inconsistent (illegal) interpretations of the contract language and I'll do it again....
Hi all!
I am a few months from the end of my contract... What do you have to do when finishing up?
No one in my support group has finished so I'm curious what hoops you have to jump through.
Just want to be ready!