Yeah, I seen it on my granfather. He was haveing strokes one after another.He got very mean so we had to put him in a nurseing home.He did not know who my granmother was untill she came in that day and he said thats my wife.My granmother thought he was gonna pull through. I tried to tell her he was not gonna get better.That he had a major stroke and died. So i know that is very true the calm before the storm. He was also very nice day talkin about a light he seen in his dreams the night before. That is one thing my granmother will always remembers he knew who i was before he died and not "The old bag thats changes me!"
nursnancy, LPN, RN
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Have you had experiences with pts having a marked sudden improvement just before death? I have a friend whose mother went unresponsive (they were unable to wake her) for most of the day yesterday. She is in end stage Parkinson's and recently had a second CVA. That was the first time she has been unresponsive.
They were finally able to wake her last night for very brief periods where she would say one or two words, then go back to sleep.
My friend prepared herself for a death vigil. Before her mother became unresponsive and since her last stroke, she has been very weak, not able to speak loudly enough for anyone to hear her, and not "brightly" alert.
Today, her mother has awakened and is bright-eyed, alert, and talking better than she has in months. My friend is wondering if this could be the phenomenon of getting much better just before death. Since I am a nurse she asked me that question.
I told her I just don't know. I've been a nurse since 1998, and I've seen a few people improve a little just before death, but not that much. I would be interested in hearing your experiences on this.