Bumposharam

Yes, a man would be better. Different reactions, different hormone set, different muscle memory, different brain work . Females are keepers, men are hunters. Hunter in that situation is better. In fact, making security officers, soldiers and policemen out of women should be prohibited by law.

Sue her for defamation of character. You have two years to do it since the date of incident. It is ridiculous, but this is the culture we create and support. Enjoy the consequences