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It's still pretty tough for me to go to clinical and the worst part, I only have six more precepting shifts to complete in order to graduate from the ADN program. I can't believe I'm so close and I still feel unhappy about going to clinical. It bothers me that although I'm very compassionate with the patients and try my very best in taking care of them, I look forward to the day when I don't have to do bedside nursing in a hospital. It leaves me wondering why and the heck did I sacrifice so much to be a nurse when I'm not crazy about bedside care. I hope my perspective changes because I'm just not feeling it at the moment but one thing for sure, I may feel like quitting, but I won't! Thanks for this opportunity to let me vent.

Hi Mehow and other hopefuls, I'd like to share my thoughts on this matter: Yes, for the most part, there is a correlation between your success in the science courses and your anticipated success in the nursing program. After waiting 2 years, I got accepted at Golden West and Cerritos College. Initially, I was so scared because my science grades were nothing to brag about let alone post here, but I thinks its important for those who barely passed going into the program to know. I got a C+ in physio and micro, B in anat, A in eng. And... so far, I've completed my first semester with 2A's and 2B's. My class has already lost over a dozen people and some of them had really good grades but did not fare well in clinical. My point is, only you know your strength and weaknesses. Take extra time to study up on areas that you didn't do well on. Make the most of open lab time. Seek out support from your peers and teachers. And when you're in clinical, develope a "curious" mind and seek out opportunities to learn. I was shocked when my teacher told me that I was one of her strongest student because I felt that I entered the program with a weak foundation. So, if you really want it as badly as I wanted to get into the program and do well, you will find a way. All the best guys, because its so heartfelt when I see another one of my nursing sister or nursing brother for that matter, experience a set back.

This thread is a good reminder and inspiration to all who may have previously lost some direction in life and are now on the path of reaching his/her potential. I too can be lumped in that category and have actually found out two days ago that I will be starting the RN program in January. YAY!!! I try to keep in mind that its not so much reaching the final destination that is so important, but more so, the journey along the way that inevitably shapes our character. Congrats to those who will be starting with me and for those whose time will eventually come, keep plugging away!

Thanks for the reply Veronica. I called the office today and my name wasn't on the list. In regards to getting in after the 4th application, she said there is no guaranteed for anything even if we've applied 5 times. How discouraging! I started off as an acct major and was 3 classes away from trasnferring to csulb when I decided to pursue nursing. At this rate, I could of gotten my acct degree by now. But then again how happy would I be with my career. So I'll hang in there for another semester. Maybe you should consider taking classes towards your bachelors as I am. And of course, congrats to those who made it in.

Thanks for the reply maireez. I will definately call them tomorrow. If I don't get in this time then for sure the next time being that it will be my fourth time applying. No luck from the other colleges either. Oh well...I suppose I'll take statistic in the fall so I'll be ready to transfer to a university when the time comes.

Hi everyone still waiting to hear from Goldenwest. The wait is driving me nuts! The letters were supposed to be sent out a week ago. Please give a hollar if you already heard something. Thanks and best wishes.

Thank you dreamer for the info and krazykev for the link. Although I will be in the nursing program in the very near future...hopefully by August, I am still making preparations and I'm sure the drug list will be so helpful. I now have it saved in my nursing folder. Thanks again...

Thanks for the goldenwest info. I too have been checking the mail like crazy. This is my third attempt and unlike the first two times, I only received a letter confirming eligbility; however, this time I also got a second letter giving me a to do list such as preparing for child care, applying for financial aid and cutting back work hours to smoothen the transition in the event that I get in. Hmn...can't help but to wonder if they've already made their selections back some time ago and is simply going through the formalities. Well anyways, at least its not "if" we get in the program, but "when" which leaves us with some time to get other things accomplished. Good luck everyone.

I totally agree with the comments that it is a very unique experience. Given the foundation that you now have to better understand the human body, it really makes you appreciate the exhibits all the more. Also, to Dutchgirl, thanks so much for the response about my lazy husband. I appreciate the thought.:icon_hug:

Hi there studentnurse, I was fortunate to where I only took all of the science courses once to pass. I've recently applied and am waiting for hopefully great news. To answer your question, I think that a course like A&P should be taken in a traditional class because you will get so much more from the teacher-student interaction and not to mention hands on experience with the labs. The labs are to apply and reinforce what you learn in lecture. Many of my classmates have had to retake the A&P class so its not uncommon. The important thing is how comfortable do you feel with what you've learned before moving onto the next step. I can't say for sure how applicable these sciences courses will be in for us when we're in the program, but it is a good foundation to build upon. If you have to retake then so be it. An extra semester of waiting won't hurt you. you've been patient this long already. Just try to pass it with a good grade next time around. There are those who have to take it more than twice to pass it. Not sure if they are not taking the courses seriously or maybe should consider getting into another field, but it sounds like you're giving it a good effort. So good luck and hang in there. Second time, if need be for you will only be better.

:yelclap: Hope you don't get too busy to put in your two cents.

Hello babynurse06, Can't input as to the working enviroment and pay as a nurse because I'm still in school. However, when my youngest child was admitted a few years back for a week at Millers Long Beach, I had a very positive experience with the doctors and nurses. They seemed to work as a team and the nurses were very helpful and comforting. As to your question about the living expenses, a nurses salary should suffice providing you don't have a lot of additional obligations like caring for a lot of children or paying off a lot of debt. Of course, two incomes are definitely an advantage out here because of the high cost of living, especially if you're even intending on someday buying a home which currently is averaging over 500,000 dollars in the LA and Orange county areas. But I don't think its impossible if you are careful with your finances and come up with a financial game plan to save for any future investments. Not sure where you're moving from but I love it out here! Beautiful weather, diverse cultures, and many opportunities to experience new avenues. I guess that could be good or bad depending on what you're looking for. Anyways, good luck with your choice.

Hi guys, As embarassing as it was to tell the world of nurses about my husband's habit, I only mentioned it to remind you all that just when you think the worst of your husbands, there is always someone eles that can bring a little appreciation to your situation. Of course my husband now clearly understands how disgusted I was with his laziness, stupidity, and other words that I can't use here, but he knows to not do that again because the next time, he will have some extra flavoring with his coffee. And yes, mercyteapot, he does have some issues with his parents that he has begun to work on with a therapist. He's a geat guy and a very involved father and at this point, I won't hold the terrible deed agains't him for too long. It's been awhile, and I do check the beds and so far, its ok. And for you male nurses, sorry if I offend you guys by correlating husbands and laziness. There are certainly some very lazy wives out there. My girlfriend is a total slob but one heck of nurse who is very meticulous and organized at work. Lucky for her, she has a husband who removes her used bubble gum from her side of the night stand. Yes DutchgirlRN, this is a great site for learning, humor, and therapy. Thanks for responding guys!:loveya:

You guys are too funny!!!:chuckle It's been awhile since I've read this thread. Its so refreshing to read all of the extras. Like I mentioned in my previous comments, my house is a beaken for a man made tornado. My mother in law came by last week with some donated goodies, I had her put the stuff on the swing next to front door even though she has a key. My in laws are so anal about everything. We had a family dinner to attend at sister in law's house yesterday and was told to be there at 5:30pm. Of course with my schedule and at times, three bratty kids, we arrived at 5:35 and got a lecturing. It drives me crazy that they are so anally anal and it drives them crazy that my house looks like a germ factory. Anyways, I did get to throughly clean my boy's room. I had to start outside their door because their was too much crap to even get in. As for hubby, I think the previous comments pretty much sums it up but I think I can do one better. My loving but lazy husband is sooooo lazy that at times instead of getting up to take a you know what, he would relieve himself in an empty water bottle. and to make it worse, I won't find it until I clean underneath the bed and as you guys are already aware of, that doesn't happen too often, especially since I'm still in school. So imagine my suprise and disgust when my little ones comes across his portable toilets. We have gotten into many heated discussions via flying objects from me about this issue among others. He has promised to do better. Do you think this is his way of reacting to years of rigid, inflexible, anally anal mother and sisters? P.S. I think I'm becoming addicted to this site.

Hi Alison, Thank you so much for the suggestions. I will look into them. Hopefully soon I'll be able to get back into moving and grooving.