Help! How do you go to nursing school during the day when I need to work ?

Set realistic expectations. I don't mean to be cruel, but you need to recognize that you might not be able to fit all the pieces together exactly the way you would like to.

Going to school full time (as you may have to do when you actually start the nursing part of your education ) is the equivalent of having a full time job. Most people cannot maintain 3 full time jobs (work, school, and mommy) and do a good job at all of them. "Something has to give." You may need to do any and/or all of the following:

1. Change jobs, decrease your work hours, or quit work altogether. Get scholarships and/or student loans to cover your living expenses as well as your school expenses. Yes, you will graduate with loans to repay -- but that is a choice you need to make. Will it be worth it to you to take out the loans in exchange for going to the school of your choice and graduating on schedule? You'll have to sit down and "do the math" to see which option works best for you.

2. Change schools to a less expensive option ... or crawl along taking one course at a time while you continue to work at least part time to earn a little money as you go. That way, your student loans may be less -- but it will take longer to go to school, which will delay your ability to earn higher wages for a longer time. Again, you will have to sit down and do the math to decide whether or not the delay in graduation is worth it to you. A different school with classes on the weekends or in the evenings might be available -- but that will still be tough if you are working full time during the day and wanting to spend evenings and weekends with your kids.

3. Ask your familty to make significant sacrifices -- in terms of their standard of living and in terms of how much attention they receive from you. You'll probably have to do that regardless of what choices you make, but the specific sacrifices will vary depending on which route you decide to take.

In short, you need to find the balance of those 3 roles (wage earner, student, mother) that will work best for you -- but all combinations will require sacrifice and hardship on all fronts. If you change jobs, it will effect your income. If you slow down your academic progress, it will mean that it will take longer to reach your goal of graduation. etc. etc. etc. In order to "save" time for your family, you will probably need to do one of those 2 things.

You have some tough choices to make and I wish you well in your efforts to sort out your long and short-term priorities. But you can't realisitically expect for nursing school to simply fit into your "spare time" when work full time and have a family. School is to big of a committment to be a "spare time" thing. Other areas of your life will be significantly effected -- and all you can do is to decide which sacrifices you are willing to make.

I've BTDT and here are some things that helped me:

1. Took a job as a medical transcriptionist after my first semester at the LPN program and then worked more flexible hours.

2. Worked doubles as a CNA on weekends leaving the week for school.

3. Worked nights as a unit clerk during the week which allowed for some study time on the clock.

4. Realized that I couldn't do it all and that I had to make my studying count. I'm no brain but when the schools say you have to allow 3 hours of study for each one credit hour - no way, no how. I took notes in class and skimmed the reading material. I concentrated on the syllabus of the class to determine where I spent my time. I also point blanked asked the instructor what needed the most time.

5. I did not get all "A's". My undergrad GPA was like 3.2 - passed the NCLEX-PN NCLEX -RN the first time. You have to allow yourself a break.

In these economic times, few people can quit their jobs.

I worked full time night shift as a CNA.