Published Sep 19, 2014
ceebeejay
389 Posts
Due to changes in the 485 due to medicaid, I am no longer on my longest peds case. A part of me is relieved, another terrified, and my heart is so sad. I will miss this case. I would love to know about them as they grow up.
How do you deal with moving on?
Girlafraid13
309 Posts
I always wonder about pts that I have worked with in the past. I wonder how they are, if they're still alive, etc. But I've never personally called to check with the family. I personally think that might be crossing the professionalism barrier.
CloudySue
710 Posts
I stopped working w a little boy when I switched from days to nights. A couple of years later I googled his name and found his obituary from about 6 months before.
SDALPN
997 Posts
I've found that kind of bad news in a few ways. That is hard. Same for when I've found out a parent passed that I liked.
meanmaryjean, DNP, RN
7,899 Posts
I keep in touch with one family (child no longer needs nursing care) as kid's daddy is a pastor in the same denomination as Mr. Meanmaryjean's congregation.
I do occasionally google the names of prior kids to see if they have passed. I did discover a teen I cared for many decades ago finally won a tens-of-millions-of-dollars settlement for the accident that left him a quadriplegic. I was overjoyed for this because they lived in a tiny apartment- and I'm sure his quality of life improved with this settlement.
caliotter3
38,333 Posts
Although the parents of my "best" case offered to be references for me and to keep in touch, I have not contacted them.
My instinct tells me to stay away, which is what I will listen to. They will remain in my thoughts and prayers though.