Resigning

The question is if you will feel worse about quitting or worse about losing this opportunity. Put yourself in the CNM's shoes, think about how you'd react, and expect that in return. If you quit, be gracious and professional, and when you put in your notice, don't be surprised or offended when they tell you not to return; assuming you're still on orientation, they obviously aren't going to spend any more resources on you since you're leaving.

Definitely do not quit any job without having the next job in writing.

This is my dream job so I am not missing out on this chance! I am waiting for my contract before resigning. I just wanted some advice really on what to say to my CNM

"Back before I was hired, I had applied to another position and it just came through. It's a really great opportunity for me and I've decided to take it. I'm really sorry, I had planned to commit to being here, but this is too good for me to pass up. Your policy is X weeks notice and I will gladly fulfill that, but I also understand if you'd rather today be my last day."

That's the best I got, and again, it's assuming you're still on orientation. Just keep it professional, short and sweet - you're leaving, they've wasted time and money, and that's all they're going to hear.

2 hours ago, TriciaJ said:

Your only decision here is to stay or go. If you've already decided to go, best just tell them. They don't have to like it and you can't make them feel any differently about it than they will.

Did you have a periop rotation when you were in school and found yourself loving it? Or do you just think it will be your dream job? Periop nursing is very different from any kind of bedside nursing and I think it would be a good idea to try before you buy.

If you find yourself hating it, your blown-off orientation will be a burned bridge.

I was fortunate enough to have my last placement of my degree in theatre and I absolutely loved it. I'm very aware it is a different specialty of nursing but that's what I love about it

Hello,

I personally think you should accept the position and make sure you get all information in writing re: pay/position. In order to advance in your nursing career you have to take on new learning opportunities. I left my first nursing job before I fulfilled my obligation, but I had to do what I had to do. It is hard finding acute care jobs when you are at a long term care facility so go for it. Definitely express your gratitude and give them as much notice as possible so that they can replace your position. I wish you well and very excited for this new opportunity. Keep us updated on new job!!

Smiles - this post is 1 year old and the OP has not been back to post anywhere else.

I understand your honest answer and that of the other posters.

Stay safe & stay strong.

On 5/4/2020 at 6:22 AM, SmilesHeal101 said:

Hello,

I personally think you should accept the position and make sure you get all information in writing re: pay/position. In order to advance in your nursing career you have to take on new learning opportunities. I left my first nursing job before I fulfilled my obligation, but I had to do what I had to do. It is hard finding acute care jobs when you are at a long term care facility so go for it. Definitely express your gratitude and give them as much notice as possible so that they can replace your position. I wish you well and very excited for this new opportunity. Keep us updated on new job!!

Thanks for your reply. I am nearing the end of my new grad contract and I am absolutely loving it. I have had a few moments of OMG what have I got myself into over the course of the year especially obstetrics (cat 1 ga caesar) but I'm happy I went for it. So much to learn in this environment.

To my surprise she was extremely understanding but boy was I nervous. She said they would be sad to see me go however sometimes you need to do what is best for you. Funny thing is she also left a few months of me to take an educator position at the rehab ward in my hospital. The coordinators on the other hand were very snarky and cold and wondered why I hadn't been given a bonded contract. I think their reaction was a touch of jealousy as I know they had applied at the hospital and unfortunately not been successful.