Oh dear ... Normally I am not big on commenting but when I read the words of this male nurse, I couldn't help. So the perpetrator has the audacity to criticize the victim. Dear, we live in a male-dominated world, in any profession, let alone healthcare! I have been nursing for 10 years in various settings from hospital to community to international work and I can confidently tell you, in ANY of these settings, if I cut my hair and become a male, I would 1) earn more respect 2) earn more money and 3) only need to work half as hard as my female colleague to prove myself. Just because I posed as someone who has a `p.n.s` Nice eh? I have been the head of unions on my units, I have teamed up with nurses, we spent endless time filling workload forms, we complained, we "put our foot down" but hey, it's a male-dominated world. I even see it among the doctors, the female ER physician is always criticized for any error she made while for a male physician, there is always a lame excuse, hey, his workload is high, or hey, it happens. You are a male and you are new in the profession, therefore the above is really hard for you to comprehend, but I would love you to write back to us if you consider posing as a prop for 1 month as a female nurse, I would like you to tell us how things have changed for you. Also remember, you are paid well as a nurse (let alone that you are paid more than your female counterparts simply bec you happen to be a male) because the same female nurses you deemed passive and backstabbing have teamed up sometime before (when you were still in middle school) and demanded that. They fought a lot of ugly battles, they got harassed, assaulted, and many of them lost their jobs because they stood up for what's right. But they did it and got us a better pay and more respect. We still have a long way to go, and we shall continue to fight our fight, not for people like you, but for the sanctity and sanity of this great profession of ours. So every time you cash your nice paycheck, don't you forget that. You owe the profession an apology.