As some of you may know, I am getting married next year :) You know this because I talk about it all the time because I am annoying.
Anyway, having never been married before I am a little lost when it comes to wedding planning so I did something I often do when I am a little lost in my professional life: I turned to an online forum! I won't say the website forum but let's say it has a name derived from something sailors are good at. I figured "I always get such good insight from nurses on AN, I will ask some fellow brides and they will have helpful, wise and useful tips for me!"
WRONG!
Brides (current and former) are MEAN! I asked a question that was (in my opinion) valid and earnest, expecting a few responses to help guide me through this confusion and I was met with such animosity my jaw hit the floor. Me, 27 years old: cyber bullied for the first time! I know it's hard to determine tone over the internet but nearly all of the responses (there were MANY of them) had an unmistakable viciousness to them. It was nuts!!! I was in shock.
Lesson learned, kids. For every newbie on here who thinks they are being "attacked" simply because the responses to their posts don't agree with their personal views, I have one thing to say to you: you don't know how lucky you are here on AN! Avoid the bridezillas!
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Hi fellow nurses!
As some of you may know, I am getting married next year :) You know this because I talk about it all the time because I am annoying.
Anyway, having never been married before I am a little lost when it comes to wedding planning so I did something I often do when I am a little lost in my professional life: I turned to an online forum! I won't say the website forum but let's say it has a name derived from something sailors are good at. I figured "I always get such good insight from nurses on AN, I will ask some fellow brides and they will have helpful, wise and useful tips for me!"
WRONG!
Brides (current and former) are MEAN! I asked a question that was (in my opinion) valid and earnest, expecting a few responses to help guide me through this confusion and I was met with such animosity my jaw hit the floor. Me, 27 years old: cyber bullied for the first time! I know it's hard to determine tone over the internet but nearly all of the responses (there were MANY of them) had an unmistakable viciousness to them. It was nuts!!! I was in shock.
Lesson learned, kids. For every newbie on here who thinks they are being "attacked" simply because the responses to their posts don't agree with their personal views, I have one thing to say to you: you don't know how lucky you are here on AN! Avoid the bridezillas!