What does THIS mean?

Published

So, I had an interview with a local inpatient hospice unit manager. The interview went very well (second interview, I was referred by someone else). She stated that new grads are fine, which is good because that is what I am. As I left the interview, she asked me if they had checked my references yet. I told her that I was unsure, but took it as a good sign. (This was all on Friday). Yesterday I called just to touch base with her and she stated that they are not going to hire me. I asked her nicely if there was anything I could have done better and she stated they were looking for someone else with "different qualities". What does that mean? I think I have really good qualities and have always given my jobs 150% of me. That is just so discouraging. :(

Up Vote Up Vote ×

Could one of your references have said something dicey?

Up Vote Up Vote ×

rn/writer - I was thinking that too, but I don't think so. I know that the PRN job I have now checked references (one of my references called me to let me know they gave me a good reference) and they hired me. I was just told yesterday that my passion for being a nurse and my positive attitude just "shine through my smile" by a HR Director. I honestly don't know what else it could be. I am trying to keep a positive attitude and am trying to keep on moving forward but that really stung.

Up Vote Up Vote ×

I talked with my references and they stated that they were still willing to give me references and they are hoping I get a job soon, etc. Maybe they already had someone in mind for the position and since I was referred, they felt obligated to interview me? Oh well, I guess I will never know and will just keep on, keepin' on. At least I have a PRN position and an interview next week (for my dream job). Whatever is meant to be, will be. Thanks for your help!

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in Nursing Professional Development.

The person you spoke to probably felt a little awkward about giving you feedback -- or felt she couldn't be totally honest. Some people believe that giving specifics about why you didn't hire someone is legally risky and therefore, you should never discuss the reasons. The "different qualities" response sounds very generic to me and it was probably a stock answer she would say to anyone who asked. It probably means nothing special or specific. They simply chose another applicant over you.

Good luck with your upcoming interview.

Up Vote Up Vote ×

Thanks, llg for your insight! Sometimes it's hard not to take things personally but now that I've had some time to think it about it, you're probably right.

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in LTC.

That job was not meant to be. Don't take it personal. Hang in there.

Up Vote Up Vote ×
+ Join the Discussion