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[hopern84]

I'm a new nurse who recently just resigned. I resigned after 5 months of dealing with coworkers who would roll there eyes and refuse to help me and having to fend for myself. I resigned because ultimately I realized this situation I had would never get better. I tried really hard during my 6 week orientation but I was bullied and constantly hazed since I was new. I kept telling myself it would get better and not to give up so soon. So i told myself 3 months and it still wasn't getting better. Actually it had become worse. I was scrutinized over any small error. I never did anything wrong or caused any kind of patient harm.

In 5 months I have accomplished so much. This can't be the end for me. How can I ever explain a 5 month resignation to a future employer. This was my first job and I am worried my future is doomed.

[NuGuyNurse2b]

It'll be hard to explain to potential employers and managers even though environments like the one you describe do exist. Personally I would've stuck it out for at least 6 months and see if there was transfer opportunities within the organization. However, it's not the end of the world and you can continue to apply to positions that interest you and not dwell on the negative experience you incurred.

[LovingLife123]

How were you bullied??

[hopern84]

Any ideas on how to potentially explain it without badmouthing my employer.

[hopern84]

How were you bullied??

I was yelled at in front of patients, patients family members and other nurses. When asking a question people would walk away or roll there eyes at me. When I needed another nurse to waste or verify I was always given the hardest time

[hopern84]

It'll be hard to explain to potential employers and managers even though environments like the one you describe do exist. Personally I would've stuck it out for at least 6 months and see if there was transfer opportunities within the organization. However, it's not the end of the world and you can continue to apply to positions that interest you and not dwell on the negative experience you incurred.

Any ideas how to explain it to a new job without bashing my employer?

[guest52816]

Any ideas on how to potentially explain it without badmouthing my employer.

I would simply say that it wasn't a good fit, and then immediately have reasons why this new position is a good fit.

You don't have to dwell on the subject.

Good luck!

[iluvivt, BSN, RN]

What is wrong with the truth.The working environment was one in which my coworkers did not believe that nursing is a team sport. In order to provide the quality of care my patients deserve I prefer to work with colleagues who have similar standards.

[tiffanyB12]

I am sorry to hear about what you went though that at your former job. Sounds like it was a toxic environment and you did the right thing by leaving. I used to work in a similar environment like that but not as a nurse, that was right before nursing school. I lasted about 9 months and had to quit because the job was affecting my mental health. It also gave me perspective and made me stronger as a person. No one should have to work in the toxic environment though. Just focus on what you learned from that job and move on. Things have a way of working themselves out. You will find the job where others treat you with respect.

[LC25]

I would be honest to future employers. I had a job where I didn't feel like I could ask for help, and I was annoying the other nurses when I did. Eventually this lead me to finding another job. When I went on interviews and they asked why I was leaving my current job I would honestly tell them that I felt a lack of support and teamwork at my current position. Mention that you are willing to help out whenever you can and you appreciate the favor in return. This helped me get my current job where the teamwork is amazing. Like someone else mentioned, highlight why you would be a good fit for the job and focus on the positive experience you gained. Good luck to you!