Snoozer788

As someone who works in peds, I think that was OK. But I certainly understand your trepidation given this new atmosphere that we have to adapt to. It used to be that we would be labeled heartless if we turned away from a grieving child. It's crazy how the spectrum has changed. In my opinion, if I were that child's parent, I would have been grateful that someone took the time to listen to my child and give him some comfort when he needed it. Having been in a similar situation as that child, I was never approached by anyone willing to give me comfort. I felt alone and frightened while my world was crashing around me. I felt I needed to be strong for those around me so they wouldn't feel even more grief. When I look back, I wish I had someone approach me in the hallway and tell me that it was going to be OK and let me cry on their shoulder. I still think about that very hard situation I went through and I carry those hard memories with me. I wish you didn't have to question your action. In my opinion you gave that child a precious memory that he will be able to cherish for the rest of his life.