I agree to some extent. I think we should be able to discuss salaries. I'm sure men do and that's probably why they make more because they aren't worried about stepping on toes or being silently polite. Women sit back and get what they are given without complaint. I guess at the end of the day if you want to look at salaries in your area you could look at statistics and request a raise at your next evaluation or negotiate when you change jobs. I would stay in the NICU for two years before jumping ship. You will be more marketable then.