Think back to your own childhood, what are your HAPPIEST memories? Were they with the sitter? or with your family? Were you playing with friends in your own back yard, or being told to be still and be quiet with 50 other kids in a large room? When you are 85 and looking back on your life, you will never regret the time you invested in your children. ... and they will reimburse you with loving care in your old age, instead of shoving you off into "adult daycare", otherwise known as a nursing home. Family First-- Love that Lasts.