IndecisiveRN97

I also think we have progressed in some way. I graduated in 2021 and for the most part all the nurses I've encountered have been great, and welcoming. Not sure if the pandemic has to do with it, or just the newer generation becoming more wiser. Sometimes the older nurses on social media platforms do some bullying though..

I agree. Thats why I'm saying focused assessments are more important in the ER. So who really cares about your pedal pulses if your fingers are broken. But some nurses/healthcare professionals may agree that you can find out other things about the patient if you assess them as a whole. But definitely staffing ratios needs to be rectified.

I used to be a hospital sitter for two years before becoming a nurse and you'd be surprised how many nurses don't do assessments. They just came and gave pills. I was curious about it since I was in nursing school but never said anything to anyone. And now that I'm a nurse I wondered how they even went about doing that. I was also in the ER a year ago due to syncope and the nurse did not do a physical assessment either, just asked questions. I can understand doing more focused assessments in the ER but at least listen lungs and heart sounds.

Thank you so much @Dolan. I really appreciate it. Wishing you a prosperous new year

Trick (safe staffing ratios) or Treat (pizza party)

Trick or Treat, give us some bonus please? Trick or Treat, give us some DOLAN scrubs please.

In a sense I would say to wait for what you want. I don't think you should accept knowing you really don't want to work at that particular place, plus it waste your time and theirs. Just put your best foot forward like you did in the other interviews All the best in your job search.

I've been there too. We've all been there where we have forgot to do something. And it usually clicks on our way home or when I'm taking a shower. I use to eat myself up for it. One thing I forgot as a new grad was to document that I did my admission skin check with my preceptor. The good thing about when we make a mistake, is we never make it again. You'll remember for next time to document what the wound looked like.

@FullGlass. Okay, I get what you are saying. Not trying to make excuses for myself or anything. I do get counseling, and I can admit my confidence is not 100% there and my counselor knows that about me, coupled with the fact that I am still a newer nurse and have yet to find that confidence in the field. I have been thinking about getting on an antidepressant in the future, which may assist with the feeling of burnout. Thank you for the advice.

Also @FullGlass you said you have had a couple first jobs that were difficult and finally found where you are happy. But OK

@FullGlass thank you for your response. Do I think I'm entitled, no. I'm a new nurse who is still figuring out the field and herself. But I guess if that's your opinion... have a good day.

@hppygr8ful oh wow. 3rd career and here you are still going at it. I agree that I need to find something enjoyable to do outside of work. I guess this will be my mission in life, to try at things and keep committed to my job. I already told myself that the next job I have, I'll need to stay at for a while. I'm in dire need of stability. I just need to figure out the burnout part.

@hppygr8ful I think I'm still in self discovery mode. I'm in my mid 20s still figuring out life, hobbies, interests. At one point I was going to the gym and had a trainer but I worked 3 12s then. If I work 5 days a week IDK how well I can incorporate that. By the time you get home, it's usually time to eat dinner, relax and prepare for bed. I think the healthcare field on a whole should talk about burnout more. I always feel like I'm the only one affected/feel overwhelmed/stressed etc. I usually hang with my family, but to be honest I'm more of a loner/introvert. So I normally spend my days off at home.

@hppygr8ful thank you so much for responding. I agree and I see what you are saying. I'm not sure what the issue is. I think for the most part burnout has been the main factor in all this. I get burnt out quickly. Any tips on preventing burnout especially working M-F jobs? I find that the weekends are just used to recover and prepare for the week ahead.

There's a newish nurse on TikTok that does it and she seems to like it very much. I can't remember her name though, but if you type in virtual nurse on TikTok you should be able to find her.

Hello Nurse Beth. I really appreciate your input and insight. I am the only nurse in my family so it's been a challenge navigating the field. I have certainly learned my lesson as I've been out of a job for a while now. I'm still in my 20s so I'm still finding myself, what I like etc. I will take what I have learned and what you have said into practice. Thank you again.

Since you already have the experience, I think you'll do fine and don't need the refresher course. I was recently hired with another nurse who hadn't been at the bedside for about 6 years and she had some anxiety regarding it as well. However, she said everything came back to her and it was easy fitting in again. And also remember, they will train you according to their policies and standards. You can always ask questions, don't be afraid to ask.

Hello everyone. I just need some advice please. I've been an RN for 2 years. Did medsurg and left after a year due to burnout. Then used an agency and worked in an office setting for 4 months. Felt like I was losing my skills (also hated M-F 8-5 pm) so I transitioned back into the hospital (medsurg again). Left because they wanted to take me off orientation earlier than expected because I was doing "good". I asked for 2 more weeks and they didn't want to give it. Now I've been out of a job for 2 months. I feel like a failure. I feel as if I should have made more progress into my career by now (ACLS, specialty certifications, being charge, running codes etc) but I haven't. I would like some stability, (longevity in a specialty, moving out, building a retirement fund etc) but I can't keep a job for long. I don't like nursing homes or doctors offices, and that's all that's in my area. My dream job would be pre/op and pacu but nobody wants to hire me without experience, especially seeing my resume (longest job 1 year). I keep wanting to get more hospital skills but the ratios right now makes me never want to go back. And many outpatient jobs are M-F 8-5 which I feel is not a great work life balance. IDK what to do. I may just do a flu clinic gig to earn some income. I also lack confidence in myself which may cause another issue. If anyone would like to mentor me that would be nice. Just someone to hold me accountable and help me progress in my career.

@Sandy. Thank you, I appreciate this coming from your side of the spectrum. I do plan on attending counselling and finding ways to manage any stress.

Thank you so much genesis1930. I appreciate your kind words and encouragement. I will schedule out time for my well-being. I wish you all the best on your NCLEX. You got this!

@hurricanekat thank you for your comment. I appreciate it.

@YAS95 thank you so much for this. I truly appreciate it. I'm so happy that your symptoms have disappeared. Good luck to you!

Ok thank you.

Hello everyone. I am 21 years old and I got accepted into a nursing program which I start this fall 2018. I was diagnosed with IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) my senior year of high school and I changed my mind of becoming a nurse my first year of college because I knew how stressful the programs can be. I then decided a year after that to pursue nursing because it is something I really want to do and I figured if any career field would be non-judgemental and understanding it would be the medical field. Fast forward years later, I have found a few coping mechanisms in order to deal with it. However, since I'm starting a new school and have the stress of nursing school I feel as if my stomach might start acting up again. Long story short, do you know of anyone who finished nursing school with any gastrointestinal problems and succeeded? Do you know how they coped? Will my professors care if I have this problem?