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Specializes in peds,oncology, post-partum.

This is a little complicated. I have always worked in peds, most specifically peds oncology and a peds clinic. I recently accepted a position in post-partum and I am miserable. The staff is rude to the patients, I've gotten a horrible orientation with a multitude of preceptors, and my manager hasn't even acknowledged me. I honestly do not want to go back. Would I be making a huge mistake to leave this position..I took it primarily for the pay and to do something happier. My parents recently passed away and I just needed a change. Now I think I just want to work in the peds clinic to get my bearings back...and I do miss the kids....a lot. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks!

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Leave. If you're that miserable it will only get worse. Either go back to peds or try another area, but don't stay where you're not happy. It will suck you dry.

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Specializes in peds,oncology, post-partum.

Thanks Tazzi for the advice. I know it is what I need to do, but just don't want to feel like a failure. I know a lot of people love or would love to work in PP but I guess that's the great thing about nursing... if you don't like it, you can always find something else!

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Specializes in ICU, ER.

Leave. and don't look back.

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no need to feel like a failure - you have been a success already in a different area with different people

once you're out of there, your perspective will likely improve

is there anyone in the new place who is nice to be around?

{sometimes it's just not a pleasant atmosphere, and it's not your fault}

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Specializes in OB.

I think I understand what you're going through. I have worked OB for several years and thought a new position in NICU in a different hospital might be a nice change a few years ago. I was wrong! I didn't realize how much I would miss my old job. I did the new job for 2 miserable weeks, tucked my tail between my legs, came clean with the new boss that I needed to go back to my old job (which was an option, thankfully), and left. It was a little embarrasing but it was such a relief once I did it. I've never regretted going back!;)

No job is perfect but when you find your "niche"...

Good Luck!

God Bless!

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