Moving next week!

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This really isn't related to nursing, other than I am a new RN. I guess I just need some advice or words of encouragement.

I am a total nervous wreck right now:uhoh3:. I am moving from TN to Pensacola, FL on WEDNESDAY. It's about 6.5 hours away. I have never lived that far away from home and I am getting cold feet. My boyfriend and I are moving into my father's house that I inherited 2years ago when he died. The house is paid for, a main reason why we're moving. I didn't move sooner because I have been in nursing school. The plan for the last 2 years was to move as soon as I graduated. Well, I did. And I'm scared. We both really love the area but don't know anyone. What's stressing me out too is the whole moving process. Packing, renting a truck, unloading, unpacking. Not to mention getting all the utilities cut on. And finding jobs. My BF assures me if we get down there and hate it, we can always come back. I am going to miss my little sister SO much, she's 2 years younger and my best friend. She assures me she will visit often. I am just so stressed out and nervous and I feel like I could burst into tears at any given moment:o. Has anyone made a move like this before that could give me some advice? I would truly appreciate it.

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Specializes in Endoscopy/MICU/SICU.

Hey Jen!

Well, I know exactly how you feel. I moved from Seattle, WA to Atlanta about a year and a half ago. My fiance got transferred, and we really had no choice but to go. I was really scared to leave the only place that I'd ever lived, along my all of my family and friends. It's been tough, especially the first year, but it's getting better. Now that we're making some friends (especially our neighbors), things have become a lot better. It sounds like you're making the right decision. If you hate it, you can always sell the house and move back to Tennessee! Just give it at least a year, and see how you feel then. I'm sure you'll make friends fast at your new job, and I'm sure your family won't mind taking vacations in Florida! Hang in there and let us know how it goes.

-Jennie

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Specializes in Medical and general practice now LTC.

moving is very stressful but I am sure things will go well and before you know it you will start making friends :)

Good luck

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AAAHHH!!! I know how you feel. Change can be good for some people. I am 25 and yes I am a momma's baby. I moved from Memphis to Illinois 17 months ago.I thought I was going to die. Moving was the best decision that I have ever made and I am so proud of myself for doing that. The hard part is packing up and adjusting to life without those that love you and your surroundings. You can do it and like bf said if you don't like it, you know your way home if you don't know anything else. Good luck and I wish you all the best!!!

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Leaving home and adjusting to being on your own is overwhelming. I left home at the age of 20 (I too lived in Memphis, born and raised)...and it was NOT easy. My dh is active duty military; therefore, I had no choice. The first year to year and a half, was very hard. I was so accustomed to talking with my mother ever day. We won't even talk about my first long distance phone bill. I was put on phone restriction LOL. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. I grew up a lot at that time. The confidence and independence you gain is rewarding. It has been almost 18 years since I left home. I have seen parts of this world that my family only hears about.

Embrace this change. Yes, it will be difficult, but as time goes by, you will not regret the growth and maturity that comes from it. I am so thankful that I married a man in the military. My kids and I have seen more of the world as a result. Like one of the previous posts said. Move, give it a year or two, then make your final decision to stay in FL or return to TN.

Praying for you as your make this move in your life.

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Thank you guys for the words of encouragement. I went and bought some stuff for the house today. I am starting to look forward to decorating. It helps to know that other people felt the same way and got through it. ;)

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