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Ever have a few coworkers who think they know whats best for everyone, and it's their way or the highway? :chuckle
I had a 96 year old lady who I used to take out every day for a quick smoke. She used to hold the cigarettes like we were doing something naughty, with a big grin on her face. She wasn't addicted by any means, it was more of a fun social thing for her. She enjoyed it, I enjoyed it. We'd sit outside, and she'd tell me stories of her past, good and bad memories. Some of my coworkers were less than thrilled. They seemed to think that since the PSA's say smoking is bad, than I shouldn't condone this behavior in this woman who's old enough to be my grandmother. That I should 'put my foot down' and deny her the right to smoke.
Finally one day I got sick of hearing it so I said to them rather firmly, 'She's 96 years old, she's not going to live forever. If the cigarettes haven't killed her by now, they never will. Let her have her fun.'
They never bothered us again
She died in her sleep this past year, not of emphysema, not of lung cancer, of old age. I'm glad I never listened to those coworkers and deny her a time of the day that she enjoyed so much. I still miss those little breaks with her. One of the last of her days, she told me 'I've grown quite fond of you. I'm glad we've spent this time together' :) :heartbeat
Rest in peace Edna :heartbeat