I Need Advice Please

You situation is a tough one. This type of conversation are noted as,”workplace harassment/gossip and slandering.” Typically all work place have rights and protection to employees. These misconducts can be acted upon legal actions. I cannot tell you to report or to not report because it is your choice. But I will definitely speak up. You are speaking up for yourself and speaking up to provide better management. As we nurses learn all expiration dates are critical and should be followed. 

10 hours ago, Ym Bx said:

You situation is a tough one. This type of conversation are noted as,”workplace harassment/gossip and slandering.” Typically all work place have rights and protection to employees. These misconducts can be acted upon legal actions. I cannot tell you to report or to not report because it is your choice. But I will definitely speak up. You are speaking up for yourself and speaking up to provide better management. As we nurses learn all expiration dates are critical and should be followed. 

Thanks so much for your advice! 

You should quit! Remember this is your license on the line. I worked in a medical office like that with constant drama and I was miserable. I do things by the book, and they also had a problem with this and at the end of it I was the one in trouble for speaking up. There is no reason to be shamed for doing things the right way. This job won't help your nursing career if that is the environment that the doctor is allowing. I'm sure you would be the first one they would pin something bad on. No reason to stay somewhere that isn't of service to you. Good luck!

Also one more thing don’t forget it’s also for your safety and patient safety. We are advocates. ?

2 hours ago, Ym Bx said:

Also one more thing don’t forget it’s also for your safety and patient safety. We are advocates. ?

I definitely agree. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

3 hours ago, nursekp said:

You should quit! Remember this is your license on the line. I worked in a medical office like that with constant drama and I was miserable. I do things by the book, and they also had a problem with this and at the end of it I was the one in trouble for speaking up. There is no reason to be shamed for doing things the right way. This job won't help your nursing career if that is the environment that the doctor is allowing. I'm sure you would be the first one they would pin something bad on. No reason to stay somewhere that isn't of service to you. Good luck!

Thanks so much for your response. I've already applied to other jobs and got a couple of calls back. I appreciate your advice. Thank you.

Sometimes in a toxic work culture it is best just to cut your losses and go elsewhere. 

However, there can be a LOT of toxic employers in healthcare and if you leave from every place that has this atmosphere you could be looking at not having a job.

I tend to be assertive when I feel as though someone's trying to smear me, so I would probably pull her aside and ask her if she had any concerns about you she wanted to discuss. Remain calm, objective, and hear her out if she does actually bring anything up. Tell her that you feel as though there's been a lot of tension and you want to work out whatever difficulties there may be, a lot of people will respond favorably, I've found, and sometimes that's enough to take care of the issue.

If that's not your style, my other piece of advice would be to let it ride and just ignore their juvenile behavior. If they don't want to talk to you, who cares? You're there to do your job, get paid, and go home, sure it would be nice to be on friendly terms with your co-workers but there are many days I wish I could get the silent treatment from my co-workers ?. Besides if these people are so bent out of shape over an expired tuberculin syringe I probably wouldn't have much use for them as co-workers anyway.

On 2/4/2021 at 11:23 PM, TheMoonisMyLantern said:

Sometimes in a toxic work culture it is best just to cut your losses and go elsewhere. 

However, there can be a LOT of toxic employers in healthcare and if you leave from every place that has this atmosphere you could be looking at not having a job.

I tend to be assertive when I feel as though someone's trying to smear me, so I would probably pull her aside and ask her if she had any concerns about you she wanted to discuss. Remain calm, objective, and hear her out if she does actually bring anything up. Tell her that you feel as though there's been a lot of tension and you want to work out whatever difficulties there may be, a lot of people will respond favorably, I've found, and sometimes that's enough to take care of the issue.

If that's not your style, my other piece of advice would be to let it ride and just ignore their juvenile behavior. If they don't want to talk to you, who cares? You're there to do your job, get paid, and go home, sure it would be nice to be on friendly terms with your co-workers but there are many days I wish I could get the silent treatment from my co-workers ?. Besides if these people are so bent out of shape over an expired tuberculin syringe I probably wouldn't have much use for them as co-workers anyway.

Haha! I felt that WHOLE post.. ? .. So I'm transferring to a new office because the doctor I worked with resigned today.