could get fired!

I know many times that I have an issue, I'll do research on my own without actually sharing it with many people. I'm grateful for the concern but I personally don't like people in my business too much, to the point where at times I'll altogether refrain telling people anything, just so I won't be asked about its progress.

Well said! There are times I don't want to discuss issues because I don't want to think about them for a time.

I'm really enjoying how people are bashing the concerned parent asking on behalf of her child. Ever occur to anyone that maybe the girl wanted to solve it on her own, and didn't want to run to a forum of strangers and ask their opinion? Ever occur to anyone that maybe mom is so concerned for her daughters career that she wanted a better insight as to the possible consequences her daughter could be facing ?

I know many times that I have an issue, I'll do research on my own without actually sharing it with many people. And I do this because I know my folks would react in a similar fashion ---freak out and ask everyone they could find and have ever met to try to help me through the situation. I'm grateful for the concern but I personally don't like people in my business too much, to the point where at times I'll altogether refrain telling people anything, just so I won't be asked about its progress.

Hope things turn out for the best for the daughter, but as echoed by many others, termination seems likely, but not definite. If she's as good a nurse as described and doesn't have much other infractions, administration may be inclined to pursue a less severe course of action

This doesn't make sense. You're complaining that people are bashing the mom for doing exactly what you would not want your parents to do - spread your business all over a forum.

Helicopter parents don't help, no matter how they feel they do. They meddle and insulate, which actually works against the child.

Mom, let your child learn. Don't intervene, don't tell her how horrible the boss is, don't tell her how special and misunderstood she is. Be kind but resolute. The kind Gods gave us legs for a reason - let her stand on them for a change.

At my workplace she would have been terminated on the spot. Since that did not happen, perhaps she will get suspended. Regardless, she falsified information by logging in as another user, which is dishonest. I'm not sure I'd want to work with a nurse like this.