So to avoid a boring and a very long post, let me make this short. I work in a level 1 ER. Shortly will be doing charge. Another nurse also will be. This nurse is a great nurse and will make a good charge. She not only knows this, but loudly and often tells anyone who will listen of how great she is, her stories (she hasn't been a nurse long), and any opportunity that she can to talk about her experiences (limited). Always the loudest, always the "me me" person. It is a lot to handle. I can walk away, try to change the topic, etc., but the final straw...
(changing a few things here for privacy) She wrote a letter to management regarding her idea (which I brought up as something we could work on, in our department) on a certain problem. She never mentioned me, in fact, stated this was her idea. I don't need praise or glory, but to pull that crap is astonishing. I am shocked, saddened, and mostly feel like there are fewer and fewer good nurses out there that really and truly care about being a good person.
I remind myself that as we grow older and wiser in this profession, we know that we do not know everything. We know that others bring much experience with them, we know each person is unique and fills the gap in others' knowledge when it is needed. It took me some time to learn that, and I hope this nurse will too - it's the department that is suffering. It's hard when you know everyone feels the same way, but there's nothing anyone can do about it. It takes time and hope that there's not a trail of destruction in its wake.
Just another life lesson. These are the lumps.
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So to avoid a boring and a very long post, let me make this short. I work in a level 1 ER. Shortly will be doing charge. Another nurse also will be. This nurse is a great nurse and will make a good charge. She not only knows this, but loudly and often tells anyone who will listen of how great she is, her stories (she hasn't been a nurse long), and any opportunity that she can to talk about her experiences (limited). Always the loudest, always the "me me" person. It is a lot to handle. I can walk away, try to change the topic, etc., but the final straw...
(changing a few things here for privacy) She wrote a letter to management regarding her idea (which I brought up as something we could work on, in our department) on a certain problem. She never mentioned me, in fact, stated this was her idea. I don't need praise or glory, but to pull that crap is astonishing. I am shocked, saddened, and mostly feel like there are fewer and fewer good nurses out there that really and truly care about being a good person.
I remind myself that as we grow older and wiser in this profession, we know that we do not know everything. We know that others bring much experience with them, we know each person is unique and fills the gap in others' knowledge when it is needed. It took me some time to learn that, and I hope this nurse will too - it's the department that is suffering. It's hard when you know everyone feels the same way, but there's nothing anyone can do about it. It takes time and hope that there's not a trail of destruction in its wake.
Just another life lesson. These are the lumps.