I need some life advice I am at a crossroads right now. I am currently a chamberlain college nursing student about to start nursing classes here in a few months. I work full-time on the night shift and I need the money to get by. I am also in the Army National Guard for the last 6 years.
I am struggling with if I should stay in the guard or not. The only real reason I want to stay in at the moment is the student loan replacement program. I don't currently qualify for any of the other benefits because of pt. The better part of me wants to get out because I feel like I just can't commit to the Army to be a good soldier at this point. I can't find the time in my day to work out as much as necessary for pt test. I am also really worried about the amount of time the guard has and will take me out of school. I feel like I am being spread way too thin and I don't want nursing school to be the ball that is dropped. I am right at the point where I need to make the decision to get out or stay in. I am also very torn because someday I'd like to go back in with my FNP and be an officer but I am worried if I get out now it will hurt my chances. What do I do? Is there a way to balance it all that I just am not getting? Or should I focus on nursing school and sacrifice for school because, in the end, it is my goal?
I'd really appreciate advice from people who have been in my shoes.
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I need some life advice I am at a crossroads right now. I am currently a chamberlain college nursing student about to start nursing classes here in a few months. I work full-time on the night shift and I need the money to get by. I am also in the Army National Guard for the last 6 years.
I am struggling with if I should stay in the guard or not. The only real reason I want to stay in at the moment is the student loan replacement program. I don't currently qualify for any of the other benefits because of pt. The better part of me wants to get out because I feel like I just can't commit to the Army to be a good soldier at this point. I can't find the time in my day to work out as much as necessary for pt test. I am also really worried about the amount of time the guard has and will take me out of school. I feel like I am being spread way too thin and I don't want nursing school to be the ball that is dropped. I am right at the point where I need to make the decision to get out or stay in. I am also very torn because someday I'd like to go back in with my FNP and be an officer but I am worried if I get out now it will hurt my chances. What do I do? Is there a way to balance it all that I just am not getting? Or should I focus on nursing school and sacrifice for school because, in the end, it is my goal?
I'd really appreciate advice from people who have been in my shoes.