Published Oct 30, 2011
karlaparis
13 Posts
Hello Everyone!
I'm hoping I can get advice, encouragement, tips, anything to lift my spirits and lessen my anxiety. I graduated in May 2009 and since have take the NCLEX-RN 3 times unsuccessfully. Each time it gets me down even worse. I will be taking it for the fourth time this December. I have been studying like crazy, from every possible book/cd. I've done Kaplan and Hurst Reviews, as well. I had been working in private home care and left it because I felt I needed to focus 100% on this test. I've distanced myself from former classmates because I feel bad that I'm practically the only one that has not passed from my class. I'm also worried about not being hireable since its taken me so long to pass. As you can see, with 5 weeks to go, the stress, anxiety and fear of not passing, yet again, is taking over my mind to the point that I've had nightmares. There's nothing more in this world that I'd love:heartbeat to be than a NURSE !
I'm reaching out to you for your advice, thoughts and prayers!
Thank you for taking your time in reading this.
angelavenice
231 Posts
Hey karla,never give up!i feel you i graduated last 2008,and yet i did not pass my RN NCLEX,i think i did all the review,believe me ive taken so many times on this test because of family pressure,its not because i wanted to pass.until now still not RN,but hey my heart and brain still wanting to take this test one more time,and to tell you people say why you take nclex rn instead rn its just the same,well for me i just want to prove something for myself and i got a good pop up this morning.never give up and pray and pray and pray do not over study if you dont feel like studying relax.what i do is i watch movies lol addicted to it.hehehe
THank you so much for your words and advice! Congratulations!
46oldnewrn
59 Posts
Don't give up!!! Third time finally was a charm for me. I also eluded students and faculty of my school because I was so embarrassed by not passing. I was devastated. I bought every book I could find. I did the hurst kaplan saunders and many other books. What I think that finally helped me, was that I just focused on the cd from the saunders book. There are about 2000 questions on the cd. They ask questions in different ways about the same subject. I also made flash cards with lab values. I didn't get a single math question either. Good luck!!
texanbaibe
2 Posts
Try changing the test centre and relax completely . Another thing is marry the questions with the whole body system. Lastly Pray and annoit yourself with oil before you leave for exams don't tell anyone you are doing the exam just go and do it . I took above 2 hours to do 75 questions I felt I was loosing it at 60 but after the break I was ready to fight the NCLEX demon. So take the exam with it's horn and say to yourself " this is it I was born to pass and I will " when you click the answer believe it's right you will . Don't forget to take the KILLER ANSWER :)
Hawksgirl
3 Posts
I took my test last Wed and I too failed for the third time!! I have completed, Kaplan and Hurst. I have passed every study question possible by 75% or greater! I have taken a beta blocker and still cannot for the life of me figure out what else to do!!! I have my LVN license and have worked in the hospital setting for two years. I'm so devastated for failing yet again!!
I have to say, go with your gut feeling on the questions. So many times I thought that I should pick the question that they wanted to hear, but on this last test, I picked the answer that I thought was right. Even if it sounded ridiculous. My first two test, I had every single question, the third time it stopped at about 80 something. Good Luck!!
Thank you all for your tips and suggestions! Positive thoughts are taking over!:)
jenita19
5 Posts
Are we twins? I am in the same position that you are, whats worse is that a majority of my family members have passed and I haven't. Stay Positive, I wont quit and neither will you. We will pass, accept nothing less! Good Luck and let us know when you pass!