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So happy for you brandie

@Wannabenurseneko Yes i totally agree with you and thank you very much for your advice God bless *hugs*

@NPvampire awww thank you very much dear *hugs*. I am glad you got yours *kudos to you hun*!!!So glad everything worked out well for you:).

@mimiabeca thank you very much hun

@Heylove awwww thank you very much sweetheart!!!! *big hugs to you*

Thank you very much i will update you all..*love and hugs*

Thanks to all of you lovely people who commented on here and expressed your thoughts and for those who gave me advice/words of encouragement I would like to first say thank you from the bottom of my heart, for taking your time out to help me out on here. Just an update on my end, my husband finally told me that he will fully support me and I had told him that even if he didn't want to support me I would've still pursued my Nursing dream. This is my passion, this is where my heart is and I am going after it even if i have to fight the world for it i definitely would LOL! Thank you Thank you and Thank you very much *hugs to everyone*

Thank you very very much guys for the beautiful encouraging words. From the bottom of my heart i truly appreciate it. I spoke with my husband yesterday and it did not end up well. I kept asking him why he would be mad at me for pursuing my dreams to help our little family out in the future and he kept telling me his mom was right about me that he should've divorced me a long time ago. I asked him numerous times why he would be so upset and finally he admitted to me that since he can't cook he does not know who will cook for the kids and he claim he can't take care of 3 kids he will need some help(smh)but when i told him that my parents are willing to help us out when my nursing school starts and he refused and bluntly told me that this was my job to care for the kids and to hold on to my dreams until the kids graduate high school. No sir!!! I am good!! I already made up my mind and he does not want to go to counseling as well so there goes that. Anyways, I am going to start Nursing School wether he likes it or not!!!Thank you to all you beautiful people who took the time to comment back this is just a little update on my side. God bless

You are very right i feel like that right now!!I feel like leaving him just because of this. Nursing is something that i've always wanted to do from the beginning and being with him i don't think i'll ever become a nurse being married to him. I love him but then again it sucks to have this opportunity and to turn it down because my spouse is unhappy it sucks and yet when he gets mad at me he tells me that i will never be anything but a housewife :'(. Thanks alot guys i am taking this time to pray and think very hard before i proceed with my decision. Totally appreciate you all luvs...

The money is good right now and my school is paid for by the military since I am a veteran and will be utilizing my education benefit. I thought he would be happy for me but instead he got angry and told me that my nursing schedule will put him behind his classes and then complained about me not pursuing nursing when he was a truck driver and i kept telling him that i couldn't do my nursing at that time even if i wanted to because my kids were still kind of young ages 10, 8 and 6 but of course i think it's more to it than this. I got very angry with him two weeks ago and i told him i couldn't wait to get on my own feet and leave him. I don't know if it has something to do with that or what but either or i think he is being selfish and maybe a little jealous. Anyways, thank you very much for the advice hun i'll take it

Exactly!!He is controlling at times but i hate the fact that he keeps telling me to settle for medical billing and coding when I already told him ten million times that nursing is my passion and i will not change my mind. Gosh and he wants me to wait 2 yrs until he completes his Associates Degree(i don't think so). I am not getting any younger so in 2 yrs i want to at least complete my LVN but i am going to seek counseling with him and go from there.Thank you so much.

Thank you for all the advice and words of encouragement. Truly appreciate it

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The army(i am a us veteran) is paying for my school and they will also pay me $1200 every month while i am in school.