ok girl. im kinda in the same boat as you. its called "burn out", happens to everyone. i'm 24 and a single mother and have zero time for dating or going out and having fun. it really does suck, but you are going to make it. look at it this way, your only 21 and in just a year or two your going to be a full blown nurse. i know at the moment hanging out with your man and doing the "college" thing seems like a much better idea but hun it's not. if you give up now in a few months your going to regret it and see how lucky you were. you have a chance to get an great education a great job and make great money. don't throw that away. you just have to suck it up and hang in there and you'll be so glad you did. all nurses feel this way at some point and it's what makes a great nurse or what makes a nursing school dropout. dont quit and lose sight of what your doing. hang in there. you'll make it. we are all here to support you.:kiss