Aren't we somewhat conditioned to expect man's inhumanity to man by the media? In looking at my own life, I can't really remember anyone was as mean and cruel as those I learn about on TV, in the newspaper or NPR. The exception, I guess, is the teen my family knew who was very likely antisocial...but 'course, I didn't know what that was "way back then". I feel very fortunate that most of those around me are pretty neat people. Todd