I'm 19, married to a man in the National Guard, and have 1 daughter that is 21 months old. I'm surviving. I only work 8 hours a week so that helps. I only have 6 weeks left til 1st semester is finished, and I have an 90 average. Its not impossible. I don't get much study time. My husband works full time, and I don't take my daughter to daycare on the days I don't have school so I mostly study at night. My DH wrote me a sweet letter yesterday saying he wishes our lives were less hectic and can't wait for them to slow down so we can enjoy each other more....but he doesn't complain. He helps me with our daughter, and cooks sometimes when I'm trying to study. The good thing about nursing tests is that even if you don't study much, alot of the time, you can rationalize your way through the answer using the process of elimination. Take GOOD notes, and buy a recorder if you can afford it. I still don't have one, but would like one. Highlight in your book what your instructors go over, and LOOK AT THE BOXES IN YOUR BOOK. If you have them, I can't stress that enough. They might tell you that at orientation. Thats where all the lab values, normal ranges, etc. are that you need to know for the tests. I had my first clinical day today and it went great! MY pt is sweet and cooperative, and I'm excited I get to take care of her tomorrow. I was super nervous, but now I'm not at all. Everything will work out. Several people in my class have 3-4 kids, work full time, have a husband, etc and still make decent grades. Its NOT impossible. You'll do fine.