"If the fiance is not on the DS-230 as your spouse, then he is not going to be accompanying you to the US. You are going to have several years of waiting so if you marry before it is submitted, then there is nothing to worry about. But my question would be if you are getting married just so that he can come with you, and would you get married if you were not coming to the US?" We have plans on getting married now but my dilemma is the embassy might suspect that the reason for getting married was to bring them both to u.s. which is not But of course later i would want them to come with me.So im gathering info on this before i file my ds-230.