A very belated reply here... Good research exists on compassion fatigue and resilience in oncology nursing. After six years on an oncology and hospice unit I can emphathize with your experience. Here is an article that you may find of interest: Countering Compassion Fatigue: A Requisite Nursing Agenda by Deborah A. Boyle, MSN, RN, AOCNX, FAAN This was published by The Online Journal of Issues in Nursing in January, 2011. You can retrieve it from Countering Compassion Fatigue: A Requisite Nursing Agenda Especially useful, if you have it available in your area, may be the Accelerated Recovery Program (ARP). Hang in there!