Another tip: I have numerous times been able to insert a foley by "feel" alone. The meatus of the urethra is easily felt, it is an indentation, very distinct. Some women's urethras are away from the clitoris and tucked up practically inside the vagina, (I have heard that childbirth can distort the anantomy). Of course, if you do it that way, you have to have things well cleansed and as sterile as possible. Give it a try, it works. I have a great track record with foleys and have not had any incedents of UTIs with my foley insertion.