If my life has gone down the proverbial drain, then you can do whatever you like to the package that remains. My spirit has already "left the building". If you are praying for your sake/peace of mind then by all means pray away. As for me and MY spirit, I don't believe anything you say (or do as in a religious ceremony) to your God is going to alter my journey in another realm. After all, in this plane of reality, I have "already made my bed". Now it is time for me to sleep in it. On another note, I have prayed with many a patients family in quite an assortment of beliefs. If by actively participating in a type of ritual or by just bowing my head, it has never been seen by other staff or superiors as out-of-line. To quote from the Hard Rock Cafe, "Love all, Serve all".