When I became a male nurse student in 1979 I was in a nursing home with 52 female nurses, and settled for a Chinese Nurse and that took 6 years out of my life, till that nurse had a baby with a doctor. The next nurse I met I was with 11 years until she died of breast cancer, and now my present partner is a nurse. I have never used dating apps like Tinder and wouldn't. I understand that men use them for having sex when they want - likelihood of STDs. I met my present partner online on a particular site - I was drawn to her by her faith.