Waitlisted...again, options?

For the second semester in a row I have been waitlisted by my local nursing college. I don't know what to do. The first time I didn't get in off of it and I have a feeling my chances aren't that great this time either.

My grades are pretty good. Nothing below a B. And I only had a few of those. I'm finishing all of my gen eds this semester so I don't know what I'll do if I don't get in this time. I can't retake anything. I know of people who got in with grades decently less impressive than mine. And some of the classes I have taken are more than what is required. The only difference is our gender, and I'd hope that idea isn't even an issue.

I e-mailed the admissions counselor and her reply was entirely unhelpful. She merely parroted the letter the college sent, like I didn't read it or something.

I asked her if I could list hospital volunteering somewhere, send in letters of reccomendation or have an interview. She said nothing about them.

Before I decided to go into nursing, I had already been accepted to some great schools. I was accepted into a top 50 national university. I am a licensed EMT. But now I can't even get into the nursing college in my hometown?

Any advice? It's very frustrating. It wreaks havoc on my self-esteem and also makes me worry about my financial aid.