Single mom in the millitary?

As a 20-year military vet (and several years as a First Sergeant) I can tell you this is a concern. If the need is critical ... yes, the military will allow single moms in the AD nurse corps. These days, a reserve or gaurd position doesn't exempt you from remote or combat tours ... you need to work with your first sergeant! He are mandated by regulations to have a writen plan outlining exactally who will take care of your three little ones if you get ordered to serve far away. Personally, (and I can say this because I have been s single dad w/ 3 kids for 8 years) ... it is HARD ENOUGH BEING A SINGLE PARENT AND WORKING ... but I couldn't imagine trying to raise my kids in Spain or germany or some other country even if the military told I could take them with me. Think about constantly changing shifts, manditory 12-hour shifts often, and exercises and deployments ... and trying to give them some stability??? That's why I got out! Stay home where there's plenty of jobs with varying hours and find a job that works with their schedule so you can be a nurse and a mom! (ha ha .... see, that's my advice giving First Sergeant coming out ... do with it what you will!) Good luck,

LC

My husband and I are both active duty which in the Navy's eyes is pretty single. In the navy we can not take our kids with us on deployment. They make you sign a family care plan that designates where your children will go when you deploy. The command where I am at it doesn't look like I will deploy while I am here but that is because there are so many people trying to go for advancement purposes. I'm not trying to go. My husband on the other hand is a mental health nurse and they are pulling them left and right to go the Cuba, Kuwait, and Iraq. Critical Care, ICU, and ER nurses are the same way. There isn't enough of them to deploy and staff the hospital. It was actually why I picked my area of Women's Health because we are the pretty much last to go before anyone jumps on the bandwagon I have done my fair share 3 years USS Carl Vinson, VQ1, and 18 months Diego Garcia more than any nurse corps officer I know most of them have bare chest with few ribbons.

Allison

Thanks so much for all the advice, this is exactly what I needed some information from the inside people or experienced people. The recruiter can only tell me so much.

Thanks again.