What service do you work for? (if your OR is set up that way).. In my experience, years, there are at minimum 2 nasty surgeons per service. It doesn't matter if you are new or a veteran in the OR, if they are nasty and mean -- you give it right back to them. And if it is a surgeon in your specific service and it wears you down, you can probably easily switch to a different service. Again, depends on how large your OR is. Ours is very large. I think the only complaints that would be valid in our OR relates to sexual or racial slurs. Big trouble for that. But having the eff word yelled at you constantly is considered normal for some surgeons.