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I'm a new to the operating room and as a circulator I had to update a family/emergency contact every 2 hrs during surgery. Yesterday, I was updating my patient's wife over the phone and she asked if she could put me on a speaker so other family members can hear(she and her children arrived to the hospital for her husband surgery). And then literally within 2 secs *** hit the fan and I had to place order for blood and get coworkers to get me supplies and so on. Long story short, after we stabilized the patient I was relieved to go home, so I never had a chance to update family but I asked my relief person to do so. So what would you do in my situation: do you feel OK to be on a speaker to update family ? If I didn't have an emergency and had to hang up(I did tell her I was sorry but surgeon needed me now. So it wasn't like I hanged up without informing her) I still wasn't comfortable being on a speaker but I wasn't sure how to bring that up to her. Also, would it be a hippa violation if I'm on a speaker updating a family or no?