I am a nurse now but I will never forget when I was in my early 20 I was a pt in a hospital. I was in a semi-private room, my family had been allowed to stay the night with only one family memeber until I got a roommate and as I remember a elderly lady that was dying and her family which was never there did not want my family there at night .. ok I get it fine withme but I wroke up on morning and her family was sitting on my bed asked what she was doing I was informed that since I was sleeping and was not taking up the full bed that she figured that it was ok for her to sit there since all of the chairs was taken up by her otherfamily memebers, luckly she was transfered the next day. Some people just don,t care