My first thought is this child would have had a 504 in place. This could have been the forum to address these issues. As a school nurse, I would have also asked the question. If the parent did want CPR, I would have worked to coordinate this through the other providers. For instance, was this child on hospice or has the private physician discussed this with the parent? It may be legal documents have been drawn up and you just need to have a copy on file. Resources for the schools vary greatly. Do you have a designated Medical Director over school health? Also most states have a State Nurse Consultant to offer some guidance. Hope this helps!