I always like to look for the best in people, but sometimes it's hard. I've seen some family members cause incredible problems. There is a patient at my hospital (who desperately needs surgery) that no surgeon will touch because the patient's spouse has already tried suing another doctor. What a shame. The patient is really nice, but the wife is a real psycho. It's so sad when family members come in not to see the patient, but to document what was and was not done, what was said, etc. What an interesting world we live in.