I am wondering if this RN was fired how is it improper for her and her husband to be sending your patient mail? If she is no longer employed in the capacity of a RN, how could this be looked at as unprofessional and stepping out of bounds ? Did she have a improper relationship while she was caring for him? Also I am wondering about the patients right to privacy. Or is he not coherant or incapacitated where someone makes these decisions for him? If this elderly relative and her husband are looking thru the garbage at his mail, why? you said the patient spoke up and was angry and told the nurses they should be tending to his medical needs only. I must agree. Why would nurses get involved in censoring his mail or his visitors? That should be a issue between this elderly relative and the relatives husband, and the patient himself. I worked three different homes and we have a communication book. It can be used in a court of law since it does contain the patients information in it. We also must show the patient anytime he or she wants to read it to them. However, family members must first obtain premission to read it from the patient. This all protects the patients right to privacy.