i had the same problem. eventually, i came to the conclusion that i had to learn the material in an "nclex" way. in other words, when i study a particular subject i would focus on the nursing implications, and try to see how the information relates to the person as a whole. not sure if i am making sense. example: learning about a client with diabetes. what are the nursing concentrations? what do i need to watch out for if this client comes to me? what is going on in the body of a client with diabetes? how does all of this relate to what i need to watch out for as a nurse. i hope that helps.